A

AC/DC - Bi-Sexual Person(s), individuals who enjoy sex with both male and female partners

Adult- Euphemism for pornographic material

Arts - Fetishes

Authority Fucker- One who is aroused or stimulated by those in positions of power

B

B&D or BD - Bondage and Discipline

Back Door - Anal Sex

BBW - Big Beautiful Woman. Larger than average woman.

BDSM - Bondage - Discipline - SadoMasochism

Beastiality- Sexual activity with animals.

BI or Bisexual - Someone that enjoys sex with both men and women.

Bi-Comfortable- * NO such thing. This term has been widely misused. Either you are bisexual or not. If you've had a bisexual experience you are considered BI or bisexual.

Bi-Curious - Someone that is curious, interested in Bisexual experiences.

Bondage - The practice of restraining a person(s) for sexual pleasure.

C

Can Entertain - Someone that has a private location and is willing to invite others over.

Can Travel - Someone that is willing to travel.

Clean - Disease and Drug Free

Closed Swinging- Sexual types of activities amongst couples that enjoy using separate rooms usually in the same establishment (Closed Door).

Closet Swinger- A person that hides the fact that he/she enjoys swinging.

Couple - Two people, generally one male, one female.

CPL - Couple

Cunnilingus - Oral stimulation of the vagina/clitoris

D
DD - Clean, disease and drug free.

Dirty Sanchez- Oral sex

Discipline - Spanking, bondage or similar practice intended to arouse sexual desire.

Dominant- also referred to as 'dom' or 'domme', the indiviual who is in control of his or her sexual partner.

DP - Double Penetration, stimulating the vaginal and anal area at the same time.

E
Entertain - An individual or couple who are willing to open their home or other personal space to accomodate a planned rondeveouz with others in the lifestyle.

Exhibitionism - Showing off in public, involving nudity or a sexual act.

Engllish Culture- An individual who enjoys being stimulated from being spanked.

F
F - Female

Fellatio - Oral stimulation of the penis

Fetish - Sexual stimulation via non sexual acts or objects.

French Culture- Oral - Genital sexual activity.

Full Swap - A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that may include but not limited to foreplay and intercourse with another couple's partner.

G
Gay - Homosexual individual.

GBM - Gay Black Man

Greek Culture- Anal- penis penetration

Group Room- A room usually with wall to wall matresses provided for group sex.

Group Sex- More than three individuals involved in sexual activity at one time.

GWM - Gay White Male

H
Hard Core- A swing event/party where it is assumed that all will participate in sexual activities.

Head- Oral stimulation of the gentalia.

Hedonist- an open minded individual in the pursuit of sexual pleasure.

Heterosexual - One who enjoys and has sex with only the opposite sex.

Homosexual - One who enjoys and has sex with only the same sex.

Host- (1)The ability to entertain at one's residence. (2) Individual or organization responsible for organizing an event or party at a personal residence or club.

Hung - One with a large penis

HWP - Height and weight Proportionate. Someone that is not overweight or underweight.

I
Indoor Sports- Swinging activities

ISO - In Search Of

L
Lesbian - Homosexual women.

Lifestyle- Individuals and couples that enjoy sharing their sexual partners with others.

LTR - Long Term Relationship

M
M - Male

MBC - Married Black Couple

MBiC - Married Bi Couple

Menage a' trois- Other wise known as a threesome, three individuals engaging in sexual activites together.

Moresome - More than four.

MWC - Married White Couple

N

Newbie- Individual or individuals new to the lifestyle.

NSA- No strings attached

O
Off-Premise - A swing club or party where there are no designated locations for play. This may or may not exclude the activity from actually taking place.

Open Swinging- A couple who enjoys sexual activities with others in the same room together (Open Door).

Oral- Cunnilingus, Fellatio, Head.

Orgy- Sexual activities amongst several males and females in the same room (Group sex).

P
P/P - Photo/Phone

Professional- (1) slang for Oral sex , (2) an individual who has a career established in the adult industry. ie: adult film star, escort, prostitute

R

Recreational Swinger- An individual or couple who enjoys the swinging lifestyle but not looking for any type of emotional attachment.

Restraint- Mild bondage used in sexual fantasies.

Roman- Group sex, orgies, the party scene.

Rubber- (1) Condom: means of protecting oneself with the use of a contraception. (2) Fetish: sexual stimulation through the look , smell and feel of rubber (B&D).

S
S&M or SM - Sadism/Masochism

Safe - Someone that is not at risk for becoming or causing a pregnancy.

SBF - Single Black Female

SBiF - Single Bi Female

SBiM - Single Bi Male

SBM - Single Black Male

SGL - Single, a swinger with out a partner.

Sodomy - Usually Anal sex, possibly forced.

Soft Swing/Swingers - A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to but not including intercourse.

STD - Sexually Transmitted Disease.

STR8 or STR or Straight - Straight, a Heterosexual person.

Swap or Swapping - Two couples exchanging partners

SWF - Single White Female

SWM - Single White Male

T

Threesome- Three people, two of one sex and one of the other engaging in swinging activities. Different then a Menage a' Trios in that there usually is some type of emotional relationship with one of the couples.

Toys- Sexual aids.

Travel-Can travel.

Triad- Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuos sexual relationship that involves emotions and feelings.

Triolism- Used to indicate the desire for a threesome.

U

Utopian Swinger- An individual who enjoys swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals.

V
Versatile - Bisexual

Voluptuous- Fullness of beauty and form. Usually referring to a woman with large, well-formed breasts.

Voyeur or Voyeurism - One who enjoys watching.

W
Water Sports - Urination involving sexual stimulation.